Become the Person You Want to Be



Welcome to my site.

I help people who feel held back by self-limiting thoughts, overwhelming emotions or self-defeating behaviours to feel better, sleep better and take their lives back.

How would it be if....

You were as powerful as you know yourself to be...

How would it be if....

You were content


A leader

A healer

A frivilous Showoff?

How would it be if....


You were healed

You weren't afraid of dogs.. Or spiders... Or buttons..Or death....


Or Life?

How would that be?

Let's talk about how Skillful Practice can help you come back to who you really are.


With You Every Step of the Way


Working one-to one,  we will look at what is happening with you, how it affects you and why this is a problem in your life.  We will look at what keeps this going and what you have done in the past that made things a bit better.

Using this information, we will try out some techniques, find what works for you and work on a plan that will help you take control of your life.

You will never hear me tell you that, if you only change your attitude, your lot will improve.   I will never say "If only you stopped thinking irrationally, your life would be better".

My training does not make me an expert on how you should live, it taught me how to help you become your own therapist.

Contact me and allow me to help you begin to enjoy everything that life has to offer.

Foggy Pier

Cue Controlled Relaxation

This is a quick and easy technique to help you reduce your stress level and muscle tension.  You will develop a cue , combining words and a gesture, to train your body to let go of muscle tension whenever you want to, just by thinking about it.  Initially, I will guide you in tensing and releasing different muscle groups.  After a little practice, you'll be able to relax your whole body by taking a slow breath and thinking of your cue phrase.  With repetition, you will be able to relax with a thought.​

Call me to discuss this workshop.

Ducks Over the Lake


Skillful Practic Retreats and workshops look at how our avoidance and control strategies serve to make our stress, anxiety and depression worse and explore how:

  • To make Changes that Stick

  • We do workable and unworkable things that affect us

  • To let go of what keeps us stuck

  • To open up to being more flexible

  • To set realistic goals for yourself

  • To bring more of what you really want into your life

  • To look after your SELF care

  • To get a refreshing and re-energising sleep

  • Exercise works with your mind and body

  • What you put in your body affects your mind

  • To find your Flow


We explore our relationships to what we feel and start finding a way to a more joyful and meaningful life.​

Let's Talk.




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